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Andrea BoniorNovember 10, 2019

Baggage Check Live Chat: Twilight Zone Office

Read the live chat from January 15th here.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorJanuary 15, 2019live chat

Everyone ignores me at my new job. How do I get them to talk to me?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader struggling with guilt after a car accident that injured her child.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorJanuary 14, 2019workplace, relationships, parenting, friendship, guilt, trauma

Baggage Check Live chat: Schadenfreude is best enjoyed sparingly

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorJanuary 8, 2019live chat

I made a big life change and I'm regretting it. How do I undo everything?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader whose partner thinks they need to just chill out.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorJanuary 7, 2019relationships, careers, school, family, anxiety

Baggage Check Live chat: Dogs are gonna dog

Read December 18th’s live chat here.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 18, 2018

My wife is acting distant and doesn’t sound like herself. What’s going on?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who is hoping not to face her abusive ex at their son’s graduation.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 17, 2018parenting, marriage, abuse, PTSD, relationships

Baggage Check Live: "Sharing a virtual pot of tea"

Read the live chat from December 11th here.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 11, 2018live chat

My wife has become such a slob, I'm thinking of moving out

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who isn't sure whether to believe a friend's workplace horror stories.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 10, 2018marriage, messiness, friendship, work

My wife is acting distant and doesn’t sound like herself. What’s going on?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader searching for a way to tell her son she can't go to his graduation party because she can't be near her abusive ex-husband.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 10, 2018marriage, abuse, relationships, parenting

7 Ways to Build Trust In a Relationship

Looking to build, or rebuild, trust in a relationship? Here are some places to start.

Psychology TodayAndrea BoniorDecember 8, 2018relationships, self-help

Baggage Check Live: "Alarmingly casual"

Read the live chat from December 4th here.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 4, 2018live chat

Is my girlfriend's wine habit a problem we should be talking about?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reading who is having trouble connecting with a coworker they’re intimidated by.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 3, 2018work, alcohol, relationships, self-confidence

Baggage Check Live: "The Ghost of Bigfoot"

Read the live chat from November 27th here.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorNovember 27, 2018livce chat

No, Mom, I'm not planning to give up the job after I have the baby

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who wonders how much work relationships should take.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorNovember 26, 2018parenting, work, family, relationships, dating

Baggage Check Live: "Glitch in the Matrix"

Read the live chat from November 20th here.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorNovember 20, 2018live chat

My sister-in-law won't stop trying to rope me into her cosmetic-sales scheme

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who is mourning the loss of her mother, and realizing that perhaps she and her surviving family members don’t have that much in common after all.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorNovember 19, 2018business, in-laws, relationships, family, grief and loss