relationships

Everyone ignores me at my new job. How do I get them to talk to me?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader struggling with guilt after a car accident that injured her child.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorJanuary 14, 2019workplace, relationships, parenting, friendship, guilt, trauma

I made a big life change and I'm regretting it. How do I undo everything?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader whose partner thinks they need to just chill out.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorJanuary 7, 2019relationships, careers, school, family, anxiety

My wife is acting distant and doesn’t sound like herself. What’s going on?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who is hoping not to face her abusive ex at their son’s graduation.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 17, 2018parenting, marriage, abuse, PTSD, relationships

My wife is acting distant and doesn’t sound like herself. What’s going on?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader searching for a way to tell her son she can't go to his graduation party because she can't be near her abusive ex-husband.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 10, 2018marriage, abuse, relationships, parenting

7 Ways to Build Trust In a Relationship

Looking to build, or rebuild, trust in a relationship? Here are some places to start.

Psychology TodayAndrea BoniorDecember 8, 2018relationships, self-help

Is my girlfriend's wine habit a problem we should be talking about?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reading who is having trouble connecting with a coworker they’re intimidated by.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorDecember 3, 2018work, alcohol, relationships, self-confidence

No, Mom, I'm not planning to give up the job after I have the baby

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who wonders how much work relationships should take.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorNovember 26, 2018parenting, work, family, relationships, dating

My sister-in-law won't stop trying to rope me into her cosmetic-sales scheme

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who is mourning the loss of her mother, and realizing that perhaps she and her surviving family members don’t have that much in common after all.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorNovember 19, 2018business, in-laws, relationships, family, grief and loss

My aunt wants to set me up with any random gay guy she knows

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who just doesn’t seem to have a fan in her boyfriend’s mother.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorNovember 12, 2018relationships, dating, family

I'm not ready to tell my family yet, so what should I say in the meantime?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who can’t stop comparing herself to her partner’s ex.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorNovember 5, 2018dating, relationships, family

If my boyfriend is Mr. Right, then why aren’t I attracted to him?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader whose sister keeps ignoring her birthday.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorOctober 29, 2018relationships, dating, siblings

I hate being in the middle of my mother and sister-in-law's drama

Plus, Dr. Andrea Bonior helps another reader who wants to stop holding so many grudges.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorOctober 22, 2018in-laws, relationships, parenting, self-help

My wife insists she isn't controlling. But she is.

Plus, Dr. Andrea advises a reader who's angry that a co-worker friend revealed a secret to their boss.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorOctober 15, 2018work, controlling partners, marriage, relationships, friendship

My wife wastes money on lottery tickets and every week I get all over again

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who's wondering if it's time to pull the plug on a friendship.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorOctober 8, 2018relationships, friendship, marriage, gambling

I get plenty of sleep, and I'm not depressed-- so why am I always so tired?

Plus, Dr. Andrea advises a reader whose boyfriend's anxiety disorder is putting their relationship to the test.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorOctober 1, 2018sleep, relationships, anxiety, fatigue

My building was cleared of bedbugs, but I still haven't gotten over the horror

Plus, Dr. Andrea advises a reader who feels jealous over her husband's renewed relationship with his high school sweetheart.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorSeptember 24, 2018relationships, exes, bedbugs, anxiety, stress, marriag

Keeping the mess of divorce to a minimum

Dr. Andrea talked with the Sun about ways to stay functional when your marriage is falling apart.

MagazineAndrea BoniorSeptember 23, 2018The Sun, divorce, relationships

My boyfriend wants to spend my work breaks together but I just want to do my job

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who offended the mother-in-law and is now dealing with the cold shoulder.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorSeptember 17, 2018relationships, in-laws, apologies, work

Vacation is the only thing that makes my job bearable. Will I ever break free?

Plus, Dr. Andrea helps a reader who's repulsed by the boyfriend's confession that he used to steal.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorSeptember 10, 2018work, relationships, crime

My girlfriend complains I am "no fun" after losing weight

Plus, Dr. Andrea advises a reader who is experiencing empty nest syndrome.

Baggage CheckAndrea BoniorSeptember 3, 2018parenthood, relationships, weight, marriage